Shortly after my family and I moved to Washington State, we took a drive up to Mt. Rainier. We can see it from where we live, but we were told we needed to see it close up. I was expecting the mountain to be beautiful when we arrived at the 6000 ft. elevation point, and it was. But it was more than beautiful and magnificent. Seeing the glacier-capped mountain come into view at close range was an out-of-this-world experience. Almost unreal. Like another dimension of reality.
I'm sure for those who live or work there, it's become commonplace. It's not new like it was for me. It has become their daily reality. They are constantly surrounded by the beauty and take-your-breath-away views. They hike the trails, drive the roads, see people come and go; It's their life. And hopefully, it doesn't become so familiar that they forget how truly wonderful it all is.
Spiritually-speaking, this happened to me. I grew up on the mountain of believing I was loved by God, and it was a wonderful reality. I'm not sure when that began to change exactly, but it did. Instead of believing I was loved unconditionally, it became conditional. Others came along and told me, 'You can't stay here for free. You have to earn the right to live up here.' I desperately wanted to hang on to His love, so I did whatever I thought I had to do to be worthy of it: Being good; Making the right choices; Doing things to earn God's favor. And by the time I began to realize how far I had slipped from a belief in His unconditional love, I was fully immersed in duty, guilt, pride, fear, self-righteousness, and misery.
I felt worthless to God. I was constantly swimming upstream. I was never good enough. I was always falling short of what I thought I should be. But I didn't want to turn my back on Him and run away, so I kept trudging forward, trying to reach the top of the mountain again, but I never got any closer. I remained in the valley of He loves me if...
To make a long story short, God eventually woke me up to the fact I was living that way, and I knew I needed to stop. His love for me was not conditional. He didn't love me more because of all the things I was doing right, and He didn't love me less because of all the ways I was falling short.
He loves me. Period. Not if... not when... not because... He just does, and there's nothing I can do either way to change it. I am loved. That is my reality. And it's magnificent, like living on that beautiful mountain and getting to be there every day. Not once in awhile. Not when I reach the summit after a long climb. No. I wake up there, and I don't leave.
It's amazing how much doesn't matter when I truly believe that. It's like living in another dimension. It moves me from the valley of fear, uncertainty, and trying to measure-up, to the high places of grace, hope, and peace where living-loved is the only rule. That's my reality, and there's plenty of room in God's Heart for you too. We are His children. We are His treasure. We are His delight.
Are you living loved today?
Are you living loved today?
Hi Melanie! I understood some parts but I didn't. Are you saying God loves us even when we're bad? Well I was thought that but does he love us the same when we're bad or make a mistake? Does God love us when we are sad?
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God loves us always. Every day, every moment, no matter what. When we're bad, when we're sad, when we make mistakes, when we believe Him, and when we don't. His love for us never stops.
Delete:) thank you I know he loves you. You are such a wonderful person
DeleteI know He loves you too. Just believe it.
DeleteI agree with Anjie! Melanie, you are an such an amazing writer! :) I love reading your passeges each month, tehy are so encourging and uplifting! :)
ReplyDeleteI am so blessed to see you using your gift for God!
Thanks a ton!
Emma
Thank you, Emma. Live loved!
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